On the day my son was given a diagnosis of Cerebral Palsy many would say tragedy struck. But I want to be perfectly clear that Ryan’s diagnosis was not a tragedy by any means. Each and every one of us has weaknesses and our own
unique strengths. And while Ryan’s weaknesses may be more involved and obvious,
they’re just a part of who he is and we think he is one amazing little guy! When I signed up to be a Mom I didn't say as long as its beautiful, funny, smart or successful and I also didn't say as long as its healthy. And when Ryan was diagnosed I didn't feel like I had been cheated or that tragedy had struck. No... on that day I felt LOVE for my son, fear for the uncertainty of his future, and a desire to protect him at all cost. Disappointment didn't even cross my mind because this was my SON we were talking about. My son with his heartwarming and memorable smile, his winning personality that captures everyone he meets, his sense of humor that keeps us all laughing, and his hardworking spirit of determination and perseverance that is beyond belief. My son the most remarkable gift.
So to the parent responding to the query with the response, "as long as its healthy", or those of you huddled over a tiny crib wishing this nightmare would end, to the parent walking of the doctor's office in shock, to those of you hearing the words Cerebral Palsy linked to your child for the very first time let me assure you that it will be all right EVEN if your child is not healthy. In fact it will be more then all right. Your child is an amazing miracle. Don't be afraid to walk in my shoes. If we all responded "as long as its healthy....and received our wish....the world would not have the opportunity to know children like my son Ryan. And that....that would truly be a tragedy.